I met up with an old friend for coffee on Saturday, and from my upcoming trip to BKK, we talked about the FatOne.
He mentioned that the FatOne has a weird behavior, he would stir up trouble within a group, then come in and make peace, controlling the situation etc. Now, I don't know why this behaviour is as such, but it's really weird for such things to happen.
(I'll not relate the full story out to protect the identities of the innocent. LoL).
Why would one want to be a devil then an angel? Seems to me that the FatOne is lacking in security and control that he wants to portray himself as a super nice guy by being a devil then an angel.
Tsk tsk tsk.
Thursday, March 29, 2007
Sunday, March 25, 2007
Friday, March 23, 2007
Tell me...
[07/03/07 5:38:42 PM] FatOne says: nope... if I'm wrong... tell me.
Was just digging through some older chat logs while talking to the Ah-Neh, and I saw this. I was amused for a while, and I wondered. I wondered if it's any use, because as per earlier blog posts, we've already seen that the FatOne will never accept that he is wrong. If that's the case, isn't this contradictory?
Or he meant to inform him only, but he will still insist he is right? If so...
Flaunting of Wealth/Status
It doesn't seem to amaze me that till now, nobody - and I mean NOBODY, is impressed or awed by the way the FatOne flaunts his statuses and wealth.
Just on wednesday, SimpleOne got a call from the FatOne to join him for a FS session. Just when SimpleOne's reaching, he called the FatOne to check his location, and after chatting SimpleOne agreed to to meet him at T5, the FatOne asked a very funny question, one that doesn't need to be asked.
"You can go into T5 or not?"
Now, this is a very funny question, it has been a long time since we started FSing at T5, and riding on K's face we've already been quite well known at the area(s) there, the waiter/ress knows us, the bouncers knows us, even the owner(s) of the clubs knows us by now. We've been able to enter T5 without paying cover charge for a long time.
I really wondered what made the FatOne think this way, then I found out...
We reached T5 and I told one of the regular waiter that I wanted a bottle of Black Label opened, after handing him my credit card (nothing to wow here, just a normal card :P). As he passed me the bill, which was 20% discounted for members, he informed me that his boss is controlling discounts, which was only for members, and also controlling mixture flow etc. He also told me that the FatOne has already signed up for the membership at T5.
At a thousand or so dollars membership, you'll get:
- 5 bottles of drinks
- Usage of members lounge
- Usage of couches
- Free flow of mixtures
In short, the waiter was trying to get me signed up as a member, but what for? Why would I need this useless membership? If he can't give me the discount, I can always go other clubs. When I got my bottle card back after I finished my drink, the card was labeled "2 guests only" whereas it was printed at the bottom - "4 guests entry". To me it doesn't matter, I don't bring guests in anyway. SimpleOne can enter on his own, so can I, the membership idea is worthless to us, totally.
What use would I have to pay upfront for this 5 bottles of liquor to use an empty area with no crowd to mingle with, no girls to see? T5 is not a prestige club that warrants the "wow" factor of membership. In short, being a member there is stupid. Obviously, the FatOne sees it as otherwise. You go to FS at T5, is not to go the member's lounge to chat.
A clear showcase of flaunting his new founded status/wealth, he asked SimpleOne if he can enter, if not he will bring him in as a guest. The question of SimpleOne able to enter or not was his first step to announce his new found status if SimpleOne replied "no".
The 2nd flaunt came when the FatOne took the Ah-Neh up to the member's lounge in the excuse of it's too warm at the bar counter, the aircon is better at the member's lounge.
I'm just so amused by the FatOne's actions if he thinks that by doing all these we will look up to him and be wow'ed by his newfound status? We were totally amused, not wowed. LoL.
Till today, he obviously doesn't get it that - wealth flaunting, status throwing is not going to get him any respect. Till date, he is the only person I know who steps inside the member's lounge at the club, the member's area there is normally a ghost town. The aircon was just an excuse for him to show us he can enter.
Just for the record, we've already been inside the members' lounge, ate, seated, drink and made merry way before he even entered there. And we aren't members.
What's the purpose of trying to be exclusive? Oops sorry, I mean excluded from the group :P
Just on wednesday, SimpleOne got a call from the FatOne to join him for a FS session. Just when SimpleOne's reaching, he called the FatOne to check his location, and after chatting SimpleOne agreed to to meet him at T5, the FatOne asked a very funny question, one that doesn't need to be asked.
"You can go into T5 or not?"
Now, this is a very funny question, it has been a long time since we started FSing at T5, and riding on K's face we've already been quite well known at the area(s) there, the waiter/ress knows us, the bouncers knows us, even the owner(s) of the clubs knows us by now. We've been able to enter T5 without paying cover charge for a long time.
I really wondered what made the FatOne think this way, then I found out...
We reached T5 and I told one of the regular waiter that I wanted a bottle of Black Label opened, after handing him my credit card (nothing to wow here, just a normal card :P). As he passed me the bill, which was 20% discounted for members, he informed me that his boss is controlling discounts, which was only for members, and also controlling mixture flow etc. He also told me that the FatOne has already signed up for the membership at T5.
At a thousand or so dollars membership, you'll get:
- 5 bottles of drinks
- Usage of members lounge
- Usage of couches
- Free flow of mixtures
In short, the waiter was trying to get me signed up as a member, but what for? Why would I need this useless membership? If he can't give me the discount, I can always go other clubs. When I got my bottle card back after I finished my drink, the card was labeled "2 guests only" whereas it was printed at the bottom - "4 guests entry". To me it doesn't matter, I don't bring guests in anyway. SimpleOne can enter on his own, so can I, the membership idea is worthless to us, totally.
What use would I have to pay upfront for this 5 bottles of liquor to use an empty area with no crowd to mingle with, no girls to see? T5 is not a prestige club that warrants the "wow" factor of membership. In short, being a member there is stupid. Obviously, the FatOne sees it as otherwise. You go to FS at T5, is not to go the member's lounge to chat.
A clear showcase of flaunting his new founded status/wealth, he asked SimpleOne if he can enter, if not he will bring him in as a guest. The question of SimpleOne able to enter or not was his first step to announce his new found status if SimpleOne replied "no".
The 2nd flaunt came when the FatOne took the Ah-Neh up to the member's lounge in the excuse of it's too warm at the bar counter, the aircon is better at the member's lounge.
I'm just so amused by the FatOne's actions if he thinks that by doing all these we will look up to him and be wow'ed by his newfound status? We were totally amused, not wowed. LoL.
Till today, he obviously doesn't get it that - wealth flaunting, status throwing is not going to get him any respect. Till date, he is the only person I know who steps inside the member's lounge at the club, the member's area there is normally a ghost town. The aircon was just an excuse for him to show us he can enter.
Just for the record, we've already been inside the members' lounge, ate, seated, drink and made merry way before he even entered there. And we aren't members.
What's the purpose of trying to be exclusive? Oops sorry, I mean excluded from the group :P
Membership
What membership do you have?
I have credit card membership.
CuteOne has Friends of Zoo membership.
Well, the FatOne has T5 membership LoL!
I have credit card membership.
CuteOne has Friends of Zoo membership.
Well, the FatOne has T5 membership LoL!
Hurt/Pain/Agony
Maybe it's time to let the FatOne taste his own medicine. The time has cometh?
The best way to let others know how one is feeling, is to pay back the person in his own coin.
I did mention before, that anybody, ANYBODY, crosses me, I will repay him 10 times of what was due to me. Even if I have to go bankrupt, friendless, jobless, jailed - whatever - I will go all out to deliver a blow so painful that the person will never forget.
I want the person to writhe in agony, suffer in pain and feel so hurt that he will never forget for the rest of his life. I will make sure your life will be in total misery and neither of your family will get any peace.
Am I capable of such devilish act? Try me. I dare you to. As of now, my tolerance level is still at 0. Raise it to 10 if you dare.
The best way to let others know how one is feeling, is to pay back the person in his own coin.
I did mention before, that anybody, ANYBODY, crosses me, I will repay him 10 times of what was due to me. Even if I have to go bankrupt, friendless, jobless, jailed - whatever - I will go all out to deliver a blow so painful that the person will never forget.
I want the person to writhe in agony, suffer in pain and feel so hurt that he will never forget for the rest of his life. I will make sure your life will be in total misery and neither of your family will get any peace.
Am I capable of such devilish act? Try me. I dare you to. As of now, my tolerance level is still at 0. Raise it to 10 if you dare.
You have been warned.
Disregards for others
Obviously, the FatOne has no regards for others, that's why till now nobody has any regards for him. His childish, juvenile and despicable mannerisms will one day get the better of him.
What goes round, comes around, just like what goes up must come down. Apart from spending $ and spreading untruths/half-truths about people and things, what else is he capable of?
Before one judges and sees others, one should learn to think about themselves first, are they really what they think of themselves to be?
What goes round, comes around, just like what goes up must come down. Apart from spending $ and spreading untruths/half-truths about people and things, what else is he capable of?
Before one judges and sees others, one should learn to think about themselves first, are they really what they think of themselves to be?
Wednesday, March 21, 2007
Some definitions
Some definitions from Wikipedia
Action, as a concept in philosophy, is what humans can do.
Egotism is a doctrine that individual self-interest is the appropriate motive of all conscious action. Such a belief asserts that individual self-interest is the valid end of all actions. Egotism manifests as excessive rationalization, denial, narcissism, as well as the inordinate concern for oneself, or a tendency to speak or write of oneself boastfully and at great length. Egotism may also be coupled with an inflated sense of one's own importance, at the denial of others. This conceit is a character trait, which describes a person who acts to gain values in an amount greater than that of the values he/she gives to others. Egotism is often accomplished by exploiting the altruism, irrationality and ignorance of others, as well as utilizing coercive force and/or fraud.
Egotism differs from both altruism, or acting to gain fewer values than are being given, and egoism, a determination to gain and give an equal amount or degree of values. Various forms of "empirical egoism" can be consistent with egotism, as long as the value of one's own self-benefit is entirely individual.Superiority complex refers to a subconscious neurotic mechanism of compensation developed by the individual as a result of feelings of inferiority. The term was coined by Alfred Adler (February 7, 1870 – May 28, 1937), as part of his School of Individual Psychology.
Those exhibiting the superiority complex commonly project their feelings onto others they perceive as inferior to themselves. Accusations of arrogance and cockiness are often made by others when referring to the individual exhibiting the superiority complex.
Behaviors related to this mechanism may include an exaggeratedly positive opinion of one’s worth and abilities, unrealistically high expectations in goals and achievements for oneself and others, vanity, extravagant style in dressing (with intention of drawing attention), pride, sentimentalism and affected exaltation, snobbism, a tendency to discredit other’s opinions, forcefulness aimed at dominating those considered as weaker or less important, credulity, and others.
Social aloofness, daydreaming, isolation could also be associated to the Superiority Complex, as a way to evade the fear of failure related to the feelings of inadequacy to face real world.
Superiority and Inferiority Complex are often found together as the different expressions of the same pathology.
Action, as a concept in philosophy, is what humans can do.
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